I'm not receiving verification email

Perhaps you need to validate the email address you created with Amazon SES. Follow the steps in the following document to perform the verification. https://docs.aws.amazon.com/ses/latest/dg/creating-identities.html#verify-email-addresses-procedure

Have you verified your email address with Amazon SES?

If the SMTP configuration has been completed in Amazon SES, the SMTP endpoint should be available. I believe that this endpoint and SMTP user can be used to send mail. https://docs.aws.amazon.com/ses/latest/dg/smtp-connect.html

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I'm verifying but I'm not receiving the verification email that's why How can I verify the email and use amazon ses???

Will I receive any email other than the verification email? In other words, can you confirm that I will receive non-AWS mail? If you are receiving non-AWS mail, you may be blocking AWS mail.

How can I onnet with e2 through aws not from putty? because its also showing error

If SSH fails, please refer to the following document. It describes how to deal with the problem. https://repost.aws/knowledge-center/ec2-server-refused-our-key